Abuse. Domestic Violence, Workplace and School Bullying by Jim O'Shea

By Jim O'Shea

The e-book examines abuse (not clerical or institutional abuse). It explores limitations and the way abuse is an invasion of limitations. It explores actual, emotional, verbal, sexual and monetary abuse. The publication seems to be on the abusive character variety, and examines office and college bullying. baby abuse is explored, and the difficulty of staying in or leaving an abusive surroundings. The query of what occurs if one leaves and whether it is attainable to alter an abusive character is tested. A client's tale is inside the publication and this provides a human point to the exploration.

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While Linda’s experiences mirror those of other women, we must not forget that the female abusive personality is similar to the male one. This should not surprise us, since females are as exposed as males to the influences of insecure attachment, childhood abuse and shame. There are, however, biological considerations and differences explored by Allan Schore, which you may like to read. Females with an abusive personality type have many of the characteristics of abusive men, and as adolescents display many features of anti-social behaviour.

Linda’s husband, the ‘charming’ Stephen, displays this characteristic shortly after meeting her. Within a few weeks, he had told me he loved me. And to be honest it was so intense between us that it didn’t come as a real shock . . A couple of weeks before Christmas 2005 I came home from work one evening, and called for Stephen to do the shopping like we generally would do – he said he was nearly ready and to come into the kitchen for a minute. I went in and he led me to the sitting room, where candles were lighting and two glasses of wine were poured out.

There is a strong feeling of abandonment and a consequent urge to control. The abusive personality type is programmed to control, as a way of easing feelings of being worthless, vulnerable and unlovable. The anger of the person with a propensity for violence is aroused and maintained by thinking distortions, such as making assumptions about a partner without any supporting evidence. These distortions lead the abuser to generalise, to have negative fantasies, and to pick out one aspect of a situation without looking at the whole context.

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